For the past two years, I've been using the Busy body book. I really like it a lot. I love how it has a lot of space to write down every thing, including shopping lists, to do lists, important dates, and special notes. The column/grid style is wonderful because I can see all that I have to do, as well as all that my husband has to do for each date. You can check it out more in detail by clicking here.
I hope this gives you a great idea to help you get organized for 2009.